MEDIATION – A Christian way to help heal relationships

The Church is a family, and from time to time families fall into conflict.

Mediation is a way of helping parties in dispute to resolve their differences with the help of a neutral third party mediator, who is confidential, impartial and non-judgmental. The mediator will not impose an agreement on those involved but will help the parties themselves to decide on a solution that is mutually acceptable.

The mediator will help the parties to clarify their needs and interests as a whole person, looking positively at what the individual can do to help heal the situation. Usually this will involve a visit by the mediator to each party individually, with only information that is authorised being passed on to the other person. Often a face-to-face meeting is then arranged if the parties want this, where ground rules of uninterrupted time, listening and respect are expected.

Christ-centred mediation can help in disputes as it emphasizes communication, respect and forgiveness.

If you have a problem in your Church that you think would benefit from mediation, or simply want to talk through the process, please ring the Diocesan Office on 01634 830333 and ask for Mediation. You do not have to give your name and your enquiry will be treated with the utmost confidence.